[WHO? Juin Wen aka. Vabien]
[BIRTHDATE: 11 July]
[CHARACTER: Crazy, Emo, Weird, Kind, Fun Loving, Wacky, etc.]
[FAVOURITES: Eating & Drinking, Cooking, Chatting, Chilling Out with Cliques, Movies and Drama Serials, Reading, Music, Learn New Stuffs, Trying Out Adventurous and Exciting Stuffs...]
[CONTACT: style_987@hotmail.com]
On the way back was on the train, saw these kids climbing up and down the holding bars...and one somemore hold my hand trying to get higher and the mothers seem not to care and were more interested in talking to each other...I mean like WTH...please take your child into hand...there are few reasons: one is it is very dangerous, if the train happen to make an emergency brake, he will fly in front and hurt himself and others too...and two, it reflect very badly on yourself, its show you are a failure as a parent...and three, it shows your child that is very ill-mannered...I know I am not an angel or what but at least have some common sense, if your child is young and ignorance, the adult should at least have brain to know what is happening right? In any case you have a child in the future, please at least teach him/her what is right or wrong and if the child does not listen, at least you have done your part as a parent...
Ok another thing, I never get to understand is that why people when boarding the train have to be first to chiong in...get in first will win one free car is it? what you get is only perhaps one available seat...I mean sometimes just can't you wait for your damn turn...actually if you come to think of it both parties can't stand to gain anything, the people boarding can't get in, the people alighting can't get in...if you can't get in just wait for the next one lar, being 5-7 minutes late is not life and death...or maybe for a few people it is, but for the rest I guess it is not...anyway in Japan I saw everyone had actually this mutual respect for each other...when boarding the train, people line up neatly on both side of the door and wait for the people to alight until the last one and then start to board...and the escalator everyone keeps to the left so the people in a rush can pass...that is like considerate at its best...I guess Singapore is still a long way to reach that standard...I guess I am a typical Singaporean comparing things again but I don't care...haha...I think we should not be called a first-world country until we show some consideration to others first...
Ok I know I very luo suo (long winded) but one last thing very important...if you don't read the whole entry at least this part...I saw this one tv once and found it very meaningful...but I modify it a bit...haha...remember this for the rest of you life...NEVER BE THE SLAVE OF PEOPLE WRITINGS, SPEECH, ACTIONS OR THOUGHTS...I think mummy knows what I am talking about...haha...why care so much about what people think about you, when you are doing something right or why should we let some things people say affect our mood...do you think we should be slaves to all these, should these words or actions control how we feel everyday? NO!!! but of course if they are constructive comments do try to use it and improve ourselves...some this comments or actions are made, control our emotions and do relax...either ignore or smile to the people and walk away...there is no point in being angry..it not good for your health, this I am not kidding...anyway after reading this post, do take time and think about it when you are free...of course if you feel I am wrong, do tag me...no hard feelings...anyway school's starting on monday...tomorrow will be getting ready for everything...gtg now...see ya...take care people... =)
A picture I took in the Japan train station...look at the consideration shown...haha...